Bondage.

 

Bondage can be best described as any range of things, from a simple wrist tie, to full leather gear. 

Often, the simple things work really well.
Things that you have around you, and are easily accessible.

(Georgia's Story)
For example, on my last trip with my Lover, into the bondage world, I used a dollar-store brand of rope, a dog lead and  a strip of old torn cloth from my sewing box for a blind fold.

I also used a totally unused part of our house - just for the idea of change. With a simple mattress on the floor, and the ropes perfectly positioned at the corners of the top and bottom, (mind you - all this was done while my Lover was at work. )
I then gathered candles from every place I could, and even broke some of them in half, so as to have more.
I put them in the bathroom and in the room in which we were going to be playing in later.
I then sat down and wrote out step by step directions for my lover and placed them on the door she was to be coming in.

Normally I go out and greet my Love when she arrives home, but not on this evening...
She walked to the door, and I was hiding in the house out of sight.
The note read.......................

Step 1.
Put every thing down on the hall floor - then go into the bathroom and shut the door.

Step 2.
Drink the cold beer I have put out for you. then take a long hot shower.
After your shower, put on the blind fold hanging on the door knob.

Step 3.
Knock on the door and I will take over from there.

Warning: If you do not follow this to the letter, I promise you I will pout in silence until next week, and you wont get anything at all tonight.

She went letter by letter, for fear of not getting her fun that night!!

Whilst she was in the shower, I put away the stuff she had brought in and put down in
the hallway. 
Once I heard the tap tap of her beautiful hand on the door, I opened the door, and there she stood, blindfolded and grinning from ear to ear. 

I led her to the kitchen, where I had a plate of dinner waiting for her, and sat her down - then, tying her hands down, I fed her. (After all, I didn't want her starving - this might take all night!!).
Throughout all this, I didnt say a word to her, just took her hands and lead her to wherever I wanted her.

The feeling of helplessness is what really makes bondage work.
The unknown....
That you make her feel like if she messes up one bit, that she will pay in some form or other.

The more I think about bondage, the more certain I am that sex is definitely 65% or more, in the mind, particularly the b&d side of it.

Once I had fed my Lover, I then lead her to the room of choice that I had prepared earlier, for the night ahead.
*giggles*
She had expected me to turn her towards our bedroom, and by turning her in the opposite direction, I had taken her totally off guard.
She said to me: "This is very seductive...."
I still said nothing.

Once inside the room, I stood her on the mattress where I planned to lie her back and tie her town, and then I said in a low sexy voice: "Lie down and be a good girl or I will push you down and spank you".
She did as she was told.

I was ready with feathers , honey, ice and some stuff that gets hot when you blow on it. 
(Hint: that stuff even works on skin to skin rubbing!)

By the time I had finished with her that night, she was drained of every drop of energy she had.
We lay snuggling for a long time. *giggles* until I burped and made us both crack up laughing!

 

The Basics...

The key to success, is catching her off guard, having a plan, using good ties, and teasing well!!
Be it teasing with a feather or with a whip teasing is teasing. 
Don't draw it out for so long she gets bored, and don't do it so fast that she gets whiplash either. 

Go with what you feel and listen to what she wants.


Written by: Georgia & Mizbee.
Edited by: Mizbee
© 2002