A Bird in the Hand

A Bird in the Hand....

Fisting....
It sounds like something fierce and hurtful but - if done right - it is
absolute and total utter bliss.

Fisting is not for every one!!!
Also, the term 'fisting' is somewhat misleading, in that during the initial stages of entry into your lover, the hand is often not actually fisted, but elongated.

A Personal Story....
The first time my lover did this to me was a night of unbelievable passion.
We had the music on.. Our bedroom faces north-east, so on clear moonlit nights, we can see it rising through our window. On this night, it was a full moon.

With the curtain open, the room filled with moonlight and music, we became one right from the start of our love-making.
She lay me back and spent a long time kissing and licking here and there,
sending me gloriously over the top.
She made me feel like I was the only person in the world.

That night she made love to me in a way that left me with wanting more and more. The passion and energy level in her was insatiable, and I drank from it.

My lover had three of her fingers in me, and when she inserted a fourth finger, I orgasmed instantly.
She quietly whispered to me:
"God, I could get my whole hand in there - you're so wet!"
Somewhere in the back of my mind that's what I wanted - what I needed. My response was:
"Please don't stop."

At that point she began to push - not hard, just a firm constant pressure.
As I became more used to the sensation, I began rocking, and thrusting toward her. After about the 3rd push, her hand went right in.
The first push hurt a small bit, I wont lie, but it didn't last long and as the saying goes 'its a fine line between pleasure and pain', and it hasn't hurt any time that we have done it since.

When I first felt her slip in, the sensation literally took my breath away.
We lay there for a long moment, both of us just enjoying the feel of it.
I could feel her wrist inside my pussy lips, feel my warmth all around her - the way she wriggled her fingers...

I began to cry - happy tears - tears from the intensity of it, of relief, of the total feeling of overwhelment. The pure and utter joy of submitting myself SO completely to my womyn....
That's when she started her very gentle pushes - just enough to make me gasp in pleasure.

During that time, I must have orgasmed more than 7 times, and each time she has fisted me since, it seems to feel better and better.
The ecstatic bliss just keeps growing.

It was only about 3 nights ago that my lover again fisted me, and once again the emotions that ran through my body , soul and mind had me laughing , crying and talking all at once. (Yes, while she was inside me.)
The next day, and days that followed, everything just felt so right with the world.

For the 'giver', fisting is also a very powerful emotional experience.
To have your lover place such incredible trust in you, to be able to totally 'fill' her is an extremely potent and exhilarating feeling...

If you can give this to your lover or would like your lover to do it to you then I can highly recommend it!!

In Brief:

After lengthy foreplay, when your partner is nice and 'heated', lie her on her back and make yourself comfortable between her legs. Some wimmin find it easier to kneel. You may also find it a little easier on both of you if her bottom is slightly raised with a cushion.
Position yourself so can kiss and lick her breasts and tummy while inserting first one finger, then as she gets more excited, introducing two, three and then 4 fingers.
You can also excite her further by tickling or licking the clit.
If, despite your lovers excitement level, her natural juices aren't sufficient, add some saliva or lube.
The area, and your hand, needs to be nice and slippery!!
Once you both feel ready, and your lover has relaxed into the feeling of fullness from having four of your fingers within her, slide your thumb into the hollow of your palm, and gently push into her with a constant - but not forceful - pressure.
As your lovers 'comfort zone' increases, she will start pushing onto you. Let her take her time and go at her own speed. Once she is comfortable, her muscles will relax more, and your whole hand will slide in.

Go slowly, let her take her time ,and be careful so as to not hurt her. Always be ready to gently slide out a bit, if her pleasure becomes too much like pain.
Once your fist is inserted you can excite her in many ways by:
- gently extending your fingers to stroke her internal walls.
- gently pumping at the wrist with your fist open and closed.
- twisting the fist slightly.
- pulling out until only the fingers are in, then reinserting your fist.

Remember: SLOW - SAFE - SLIPPERY & CONSENSUAL!