Dining at the Y!

~DINING at the Y~

I’m not going to go into elaborate detail here and suggest that if you fold your tongue around a certain way to stimulate your Partner it will have the desired effect. Every womyn is different...

Instead, I’m going to give you some more general ideas with which you can then experiment with and find what works best for you and your Partner.

Most wimmin are shy about their bodies.
Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous womyn in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her if you think she's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best.

Gently spread her legs with your hands. Everything you do with a womyn you're about to make love to, must be done gently at the outset.

You can create a wide variety of strokes and responses just by altering the manner in which you use your tongue. It’s a most versatile tool and it’s totally free!
You couldn’t ask for more.

wimmin love to be teased.
The inner part of her thigh is one of her most tender spots. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue.
Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away.
Make her anticipate it.
Lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy, nuzzle your face into her mound, brush your lips over her slit, without pressing down on it, to further excite her.

After you've done this to the point where your Lady is bucking her hips, and she's straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her - gently - then harder.

Start at the perineum and lick upward in one long stroke. Much like a cat does when cleaning itself. Slide your tongue between the folds of her labia and gently flick with your tongue, and lick lightly.

Now you can either do one of two things, lick so that your tongue comes up and just brushes over the clitoris or stop just short of it. Either way I’m sure that your Partner will be starting to squirm.

Another stroke that you can use when you’ve teased her sufficiently is to lap at the clitoris with a pointed tongue; much like a cat lapping at milk would do.
This is a stroke that can be used when she’s very close to orgasm to push her over the edge.

You can speed up the rate of the lapping or slow it down, or combine slow and fast in any rhythm of your (and her) choosing.

Just remember to listen to your partner’s responses so that you know whether she’s enjoying the sensations or you’re totally pissing her off lol.

Once you’re feeling adventuresome, there are a few more things that you can try. One of them is dipping your tongue into your Partner’s vaginal opening.
You can vary the depth of the thrusts and the speed.

Another thing you can do is to put your fingers to good use. Use your fingers once you know she’s fully excited.
Intense pleasure, and often orgasm, can be easily attained for some wimmin, by thrusting your fingers in and out of her pussy while you suck on or lick her clit at the same time. It can be a most wonderful feeling.

For some wimmin, another good place to use your fingers while sucking and licking your partner’s pussy, is to lubricate them and gently rub around the opening to the anus. There are a lot of nerve endings there and many wimmin enjoy that type of stimulation.

If your Partner is into it you may even be able to insert the tip of your finger into the anus.
If your partner is not one who enjoys this type of stimulation then STOP!!

Some wimmin will be quite happy to stop at one orgasm, whilst others will want as many as you can give them.
It has been my experience that successive orgasms can often require a slightly more aggressive touch and stimulation.

I have also found that there comes a point when the clitoris is so over stimulated that you might feel like you can't possibly have another orgasm or that the clitoris is just too sensitive to touch.

If your partner is finding that her clitoris is too sensitive she will be sure to let you know that in no uncertain terms!
Just slow down and wait for a little while - hopefully she'll be back for more soon!

A womyn, by nature, requires a lot of sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex, so once your Lady is completely satisfied, don't leave her alone...
Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts, hold her...

Oral sex can be one of the most exciting sexual experiences you can have, but it's what you make it.
Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover's signals, listen to her and most of all, enjoy yourself and each other!!